It’s My Imagination

Further Annoyance

Several weeks ago, I had asked my husband to call the dealer to set everything up for taking the car in for maintenance.  I didn’t.  In the mean time, he did let me know that he didn’t feel that I was doing my share around the house.  Mind you, I clean, do laundry, make beds, laundry, and perform all home maintenance that I am capable of, including lawn service.  But, to appease him, I made the appointment with the dealer myself and took the car in myself.

The only reason I prefer my husband to do it is that I never feel that I am dealt with honestly, because I am female.  He doesn’t understand this.

I just got a call from the dealer giving me status, no, they’re not finished, and no, they didn’t find anything wrong with the tire that is losing air and that I’m having to pump up about every 2 weeks.  But, they do see that the tires are wearing unevenly (could it be because one of them is losing air?) and recommended a tire rotation and alignment.   So, after he informed me of the cost, I approved the work but asked them to check the tire again because there certainly is something wrong and he agreed.

I then called my husband to update him and he immediately made me feel that I’d done the wrong thing by approving the work.  Why the hell didn’t he just do it himself if he thinks I can’t make a decision like this?  I informed him immediately that I’d all ready given my approval to the dealer and was not changing the order.

Sorry for ranting, but if you think you can do a better job than me, than just do it, like I asked you to do in the first place!